I thought I’d share these letters that a paid for dating site sends me. I really do love them all, they press good buttons and if there was an iota of truth in any of them they would probably have me falling head over heals for them. Maybe useful as templates or draft replies.

Hi, dear Yarmi!
I am a very sensitive person, and I hope that your intention is not to play games with me! I am a very romantic person! I like to walk in the moonlight, and dream of happiness! Morning walk on the beach of the river, when the silence … people can hear the cry of seagulls in the distance and a beautiful melody of waves … Waves so attracted to her, looking at them, you will forget about all your worries … When you breathe in the air of purity and innocence …. I am looking for my life partner with whom I will live in happiness, love, understanding, respect … Going through life hand in hand and shoulder to shoulder! In joy and in sorrow! because, as Stendhal said: “Love – a delightful flower, but it takes courage to step up to the edge of the precipice and rip it.”
I would really like to know more about you! And I hope that you will want to get to know me . If so, then I’ll look forward to your letter.
Hello dear Yarmi!
I beg you read this letter attentively as I have put my soul and my heart in it. I decided to write it to you as I hope there is something invisible yet between us but it may appear as a strong attraction and anxious feelings in the future. I’m always brave enough to do a first step as it can possibly change life of two people who search for something special and important in life.
I’m young, energetic, elegant and tactful … Someone may say I’m perfect while looking at me or my pictures. But it’s more important for me to know that a person say more about my inner being, about my soul, individual characteristics. I need to feel someone shares with me and don’t throw words into the air.
Life is so beautiful … but also it’s not eternal. As every lady I dream to find my true love. How it would be great to bestow a smile to my beloved one in the morning and make him feel cheerful and energetic to the end of day … How it would be great to feel his strong body caring me upstairs to our little cute bedroom. .. And how it would be nice to hear sweet “I love you honey” before we fall asleep … I would like to know if you would like to have those moments in your life?
I tend to self-improvement and spiritual growth. I’m fond of dances and sport. An active move is what makes my body stronger and my mood inspired! I’m curious, smart, witty and tender. Would you accept those things? I’m fond of dancing and it has become a part of my life! Would you dance with me?
I really want to know your attitudes to foreign ladies and your thoughts about possible relationship.
Have a pleasant day and catch a smile from a nice lady Tatiana!
Sincerely,
Tatiana

Dear Yarmi .
Yes, do that! Join me and lets discover if we are mates? If we are looking for same things on this site? Speaking of me, I’m looking for someone to share life with; lazy days, laughs, deep discussions, dreams, adventures, embraces, hand holding, heartfelt connection and more. Looking for an easygoing gent with a passion for life. If you are that guy?
To tell the true I like to get new knowledge’s and new information, so I want to start exploring and discovering on you! Also I’m a person who is tender, considerate, kind and clever. I love life and enjoy the happiness it gives to me and my friends said that I am a girl who is sensible to live but rational to act. When I am in the lowest point of my life, my friends helped me a lot. So I realized that life only has one chance and we should cherish our lives. I hope one day I can repay them. I hope my matrimony will be simple and happy and we will have the same life goal, and we are loyalty to each other. I enjoy the feeling of staying with my family.
I understand that I told many pleasant and positive things in my address, so you might wonder why such a lady on this web site? Is she really ready what she says? Is she really looking for a husband? I could answer you – Yes. I am ready to have all this and think age it is not important in relations. The most important is Love.
I am looking for my soul mate to share my life with him. I am romantic and considerate. I will devote myself to our love. I am sincerely willing to find my true love.
I hope to get letter from you.
Send you sweet kisses, Marina

Dear Yarmi .
Yes, do that! Join me and lets discover if we are mates? If we are looking for same things on this site? Speaking of me, I’m looking for someone to share life with; lazy days, laughs, deep discussions, dreams, adventures, embraces, hand holding, heartfelt connection and more. Looking for an easygoing gent with a passion for life. If you are that guy?
To tell the true I like to get new knowledge’s and new information, so I want to start exploring and discovering on you! Also I’m a person who is tender, considerate, kind and clever. I love life and enjoy the happiness it gives to me and my friends said that I am a girl who is sensible to live but rational to act. When I am in the lowest point of my life, my friends helped me a lot. So I realized that life only has one chance and we should cherish our lives. I hope one day I can repay them. I hope my matrimony will be simple and happy and we will have the same life goal, and we are loyalty to each other. I enjoy the feeling of staying with my family.
I understand that I told many pleasant and positive things in my address, so you might wonder why such a lady on this web site? Is she really ready what she says? Is she really looking for a husband? I could answer you – Yes. I am ready to have all this and think age it is not important in relations. The most important is Love.
I am looking for my soul mate to share my life with him. I am romantic and considerate. I will devote myself to our love. I am sincerely willing to find my true love.
I hope to get letter from you.
Send you sweet kisses, Marina

Hello Yarmi.
I am a feminine and adventurous woman looking for the man with whom I will be able to realize all my dreams and desires. I have so many different ideas, business plans, and hopes for the future family.
I have my own successful business. I want to find partner with whom I will be able to create strong and friendly family. Do you also want this? If yes, do not hesitate, but write me right now! As I told you I am ready to leave everything for my future family.
If you are looking for the same things here, please let me know!
I will wait impatiently for your letter!
Best regards.
Olga.

Hi Yarmi!
As this is my first letter to you, I don’t really know what to write to you about, but to begin with, I am looking for somebody that is not afraid to show his feelings. Somebody that likes and want to develop a promising relationship and eventually hatch into marriage. I want a best friend, comforter, confidant, lover, and partner. Most of all I would like him to be faithful, and truthful. I don’t appreciate betrayal and lies.
I am a compassionate, and caring person, I am devoted to my partner when I am in a relationship. I have always tried to make my partner happy when ever I can. I believe in communication, as in I think it is important that if you want to have a true relationship with a person then you should be able to have good communication. I believe honesty is the foundation to a stable relationship. I would like to learn your language, which means that I would like to learn more about who you are and where you come from.
I am a family woman, which means that I want to have a family with a man who also has family values.
I have a lot of interest in dancing! That is a good way to keep my body in a good form! I also like drawing. I enjoy cooking, and from what I hear I am a very good cook, I would like to learn about what foods you like. Well for my first letter I tried to give you a little idea of who I am, if you are interested in getting to know me more please write me back, I would like to hear from you again.
Think of me as I do the same and I wait with impatience to hear from you. Kisses!
Sincerely,
Marina.

Hi Yarmi
If you have a question why I am here and why I write you so I can answer you because I am lonely and because maybe you are my chance to change it.
I am loving and tender woman and I am alone , I want to find my soul mate with help of this agency and I hope it will help me with it .I see here is so many women and so many men , but I am sure somewhere is the only one man that will be my best and for whom I will be the best .
If you are interested in kind and sensitive woman with strong character and high family values so I can be this woman . I dream to build a family and to be caring and loving wife and mother.
Here in Odessa is so many interesting things to see and if one day you will come here to visit me I will show you all beautiful corners of my city and of my country .
I love to travel , I love to see new things and I want to do it with my future family .
I wish you all the best and hope to receive your answer
Bye
Juliya

I am looking to a meet an intelligent, beautiful woman for dating and relationship.” – at first, this looks like a well-written profile by a guy who seems to have head on his shoulders. However, it has one major flaw that will make many women skip over it. It’s way too typical and generic. It looks just like a thousand of other profiles. The One That’s Funny. It’s way easier to tell someone else to be funny than it is to actually be funny, but you’re gonna want to be funny in your profile. Research conducted by eHarmony, which looked at over 12,000 online dating profiles, found funny is one of the most alluring words a man can use in his profile, as reported by women. The best online dating profile examples for men will get the girl to think “This guy sounds really cool! I think I’ll email him!!!” and then have them send you a message. This is the exact technique I use when writing profiles for my clients. Whether you’re using a top online dating site like eHarmony, a smaller niche dating site, or one of the best dating apps of the year—writing the perfect dating profile is not as easy as it sounds. The fact that you’re here with us, though, probably means we don’t need to tell you that one. The Perfect Number: 47% of singles say having 3-4 photos is the ideal number of pictures to have on a dating profile, as it provides a good overview of someone. What About Facial Expressions? If you’re unsure of what facial expression to use in your next (unfiltered) selfie, the following are deemed most attractive on a dating profile.

hello Yarmi! ))
how are you today ?
i see your profile and i am really interesting about you and i hope for to talk with you of course if you would like too ))
i am very simple girl and i like simple stuff .. i am serious and honest and romantic character but i am able for to share everything with my partner even crazy stuff if i am in real love )))
i am open for the life and i want enjoy my life with real man for serious relationship .. i believe in my search here and i am sure in once i will got my man ..
i would like for to know you more and i hope you will replay me back ..
All the best for you!!!
Viccy

Dear Yarmi!
I love life. I am very optimistic and friendly girl and maybe that is why life for me is colored. I like to enjoy every day of the week, that makes my life interesting. I have a lot of passion in my soul and a lot of romance in my heart. I am a real woman who loves intrigue, but doesn’t play games. Love to travel, my dream is going to travel around the world, I dream to see the world, get to know the culture of other countries. I have many friends, I love to chat.
I think that if the relationship is really happy, strong, and it is based on true love, partners want to start a family then. I see no point in spending a lot of years of just having a good time together and being afraid of responsibility.
I want to have a family and in that case I’ll be sure that everything is going in the right direction.
That’s why I’m here! I am looking for someone who is serious about starting a family and a life filled with love, happiness and pleasure …
Sincerely, Irina.

Hello dear Yarmi!
How are you? I am nice and interesting woman. I have always wanted to create a happy family with my loving man. I want to find him, maybe this is you. I want to find the man who will become very special to me and who will want to share every moment with me. Tell me about you. I feel that you and I can be great together.
I am waiting for your answer.
Kisses Olga.

Learning how to write an online dating profile that attracts anyone isn’t all that hard. But you aren’t trying to attract just anyone, you want to attract the person who’s right for you. And this can be a bit trickier.

The good news is that after nearly a decade of writing profiles, I can say with fair certainty that my professional profile writers and I have mastered the process.

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If you’re wondering how to write an online dating profile, you’re in luck.

Here are seven steps to write a great profile according to professional profile writers:

Step 1: Without the right photos, nothing you write matters.
Sure, this is an article about how to write a profile, but if you don’t have the right collection of photos, even the greatest authors of our time can’t help you.

When putting together your photo gallery, make sure you look flattering in every picture you post. If you can combine this with pictures that also reveal your interests and most attractive personality traits, you’ll have a very powerful photo gallery.

Step 2: Give your profile structure.
See how this article is structured? It’s easy on the eyes because the paragraphs are quick and to the point. You can scan it quickly. If this article was two bulky paragraphs, nobody would read it.

Your profile should be structured in a similar manner. Each “mini paragraph” should tap into a different aspect of who you are as a person.

A sample profile might open with a funny hook, talk about my outdoor interests in the second paragraph, my passion for traveling in the third, my career in the fourth, etc. The point is, each paragraph should tap into a different topic, anecdote, or theme.

Professional profile writers craft profiles that can be read two ways—they can be skimmed for information, but also read like a well-written short story, providing the best of both worlds.

Step 3: Add some bait.
The harder it is for someone to start a conversation with you, the more likely they will move onto the next profile, even if they were otherwise interested. Adding what I refer to as profile bait circumvents this problem by setting the reader up with an easy conversation starter. Let’s take a look at an example:

In the next year I plan on finally exploring Iceland (northern lights here I come!) and taking that long awaited family trip to Italy, but I’m always open to new ideas. Any fun adventures in your future?

The reader of this profile now has multiple entry points to start a conversation. The reader can:

1. Ask about my trip to Italy
2. Comment on my Iceland trip
3. Discuss a fun adventure or idea of their own
4. Connect with me on their passion for traveling

It’s a win on so many levels in two short sentences. But it gets even better…

These two sentences also reveal that I like to travel, am open-minded, have a passion for nature, and that family is important to me. Now that’s a lot of bang for your buck.

Bonus Tip: Pictures can be used as profile bait as well!

Step 4: Remove all negativity.
Instead of writing, “If you lack drive, confidence, and aren’t intelligent, please don’t message me,” try, “I tend to get extremely excited by men who are confident, have big goals, and can make me laugh. If you’re the type of guy that also loves to read and get a little geeky sometimes, you may just be my prince charming!”

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Never focus on what you fear about online dating or what you don’t want in a partner. Negative energy always attracts negative attention. When someone approaches your profile it should exude optimism, happiness, and portray someone who is excited about the future.

Step 5: Show don’t tell.
Suppose being funny is your thing. If you’re funny, don’t just say you’re funny or that your friends think you’re funny—be funny! This is a snippet from a profile of mine before I was married to an incredible woman:

I can’t seduce you by telling you I play guitar or rock climb.

But I can play a mean guitar on X-Box and successfully get up a mountain on a ski lift, so I think it balances out.

I’ll save a baby on a Monday, and leave my grandmother stranded for the first beautiful girl I see on a Tuesday. Ok, kidding. I don’t save babies. But I am truly sorry grandma.

This is me actually being funny (or as my wife would say, thinking I’m more funny than I am) as opposed to just saying I’m funny. Everyone says they’re funny, interesting, intelligent, and confident online. So don’t just say it. Prove it.

Step 6: Mix it up a bit.
Diversity is an extremely important and attractive quality to showcase. It signals that a relationship with you won’t eventually turn into a boring and lifeless relationship.

People who read your profile want to know that life with you will be fun and exciting going forward. The more interests, passions, and personality traits you reveal, the more people will be drawn to your profile, and the more likely people will be able to find commonalities with you. So add a mix of things!

Step 7: Check for mistakes.
There are a whole lot of moving parts when it comes to creating an online dating profile. Unfortunately, due to all the competition online, one little mistake that goes unnoticed can accidentally sabotage the entire operation.

It could be something as simple as a phrase that accidentally comes across as desperate or needy, a really bad grammar mistake, poor language choice, a misguided picture, negative energy, or any number of the dozens of unintentional red flags that people accidentally display.

Always proof read your profile over and over, get second, third, and even fourth opinions, and never be afraid to self-reflect if you’re not getting any responses.

Writing a dating profile may seem like a daunting task at times, but the truth is that it’s easier than you think. It takes a little time and extra effort, but you can create a profile that helps you stand out and meet the kind of people you’re interested in.

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